The Re-imagined Self
baja, Mexico
February 25-march2, 2025
This retreat is the deep breath that comes between who you were and who you are becoming.
A deliberate pause - to answer the question - Who do I dare to be now?
IF NOT NOW, WHEN?
Come and slow down, breathe the morning sun, be authentic, celebrate and connect.
Stand chin lifted, heart full and passion stirred, ready for your next chapter.
The “messy middle” of change in midlife can be a time of magical reawakening.
YOU ARE CALLED TO THIS journey BECAUSE
Things are changing: relationships, jobs, identity, age, and you have a choice: stagnate and fear change or courageously wonder, "What’s next"?
You need a place to recharge and hear yourself think without rushing. It is time to pause and rebalance.
You are determined to become the person you are meant to be instead of wrestling with the pressure of being the person you "should" be.
You have read about authenticity and happiness. Now, you want to live it instead of hustling for it.
You want to connect with a sisterhood that celebrates your unique and powerful self.
Reconnecting with your feminine energy should feel glorious. Claim that feeling of being beautiful and worthy despite the sags and the extra few pounds.
You are going to stop apologising for not being who others expected you to be and start being gloriously, unapologetically YOU.
IF NOT NOW, WHEN?
THE TRANSFORMATIONAL TRAVEL EXPERIENCE
YOUR bucket-list EXPERIENCE INCLUDES
5 days of workshops (at least 5 hours a day), we’ll gather in thought-provoking conversation, experiential exercises to embody new habits, and lots of epiphanies. Each retreat is designed based on the participant’s needs, and thus, the curriculum varies according to who shows up!
5 nights accommodation in the 5* White Lodge Resort. All rooms are ocean facing, 5 minutes from the beach, with quiet places for contemplation, relaxation or conversation. We have it reserved exclusively for our retreat. (take a peek)
2 group coaching sessions with Tania (one before the retreat and one within a month after your return) to set intention and create momentum for living your re-imagined self
All gourmet meals, prepared fresh daily by our own private chefs (can be vegetarian/vegan/gluten friendly)
Rejuvenation, traditional Mexican healing ceremony, meditation, whale watching, journaling and tranquil time to relax and explore the incredible beaches, hikes, and views. Guess what? You can see the whales right from shore!
Post-retreat community connection and virtual support to keep you living your discoveries
WHERE WE WILL STAY
The White Lodge is an 5* boutique hotel reserved for the exclusive use of this Advivum Journeys retreat. Our time in community lodges will provide a beautiful backdrop for your explorations. An easy walk to the beach, time reading by the pool or sitting under the stars is not to be missed.
WHy do I have to go far?
Epiphanies come when we look at life through different lenses. You can’t find new answers sitting on your couch. Why? That’s where you implemented the old answers. And they weren’t wrong; they just belong to who you USED to be. You’re reading this because you are curious about who you have yet to become. If you are hoping that you show up differently in the next chapter, you need to vision in a space that inspires the best of you and to dream, imagine, explore and aspire.
WHO WILL GUIDE YOU
TANIA CARRIERE
Tania is deeply committed to being courageous and bold while answering life’s most important questions. Heartfelt, gracious and a believer in abundance, Tania’s experience of travel is that it holds the key to unlocking our sense of enchantment, discovery and humanness.
With over 20 years of designing unique, transformational experiences for individuals and organizations, Tania leans on her background in psychology, coaching, change management, leadership and personal transformation, theatre and travel to create fully integrated, life-provoking experiences.
She blogs at Celebrate What’s Right and Advivum Journeys and is always contemplating the next adventure. More about Tania
HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS TRAVEL RETREAT
what we will explore
Claim Your Wisdom: What do you know to be true? Wouldn’t you like to be the author of your own manifesto so that you’re living the life that’s right for YOU, not someone else?
Redefine Midlife: You finished your first chapter, and wonder who you want to be now? Navigating this change seems a little daunting on your own.
Redefine Beauty: Step into your wise woman archetype and know yourself as a vibrant, glorious being. Find your sas, reclaim your precociousness and step into the confidence to flaunt a newly embraced unconditional self-love.
Break the Rules: There is a web of rules and beliefs that ensnares each of us and shapes who we allow ourselves to be. The “shoulds”, the patterns, the “supposed to be” and the “because it is always that way”. Set your own guidelines. Play by your own rules, or just get rid of them entirely.
Re-imagine Yourself: Take ownership of beauty, ageing, power and anything else that is currently defined by someone else. Be daring enough to truly see yourself, finally accept that you are enough, bear witness to the courage of your vulnerability, and be your biggest fan. Your happiness is about living authentically and fully.
Declare your gifts: Life is about finding the courage to live true to your passion, your purpose and your gifts. Know them. Celebrate them. Share them. Live your best life.
Own it: Boldly take hold of whatever it is that you secretly fear you may never step into or you may never let go of.
Seriously, what ARE you waiting for? NOW IS THE TIME.
Every journey is carefully crafted from exploration to re-invigoration. It is always tailored to you.
WHEN SOUVENIRS ARE EPIPHANIES, IT’S LIFE CHANGING
Advivum Journeys travel retreats balance the authentic experience of our unique locations with the pursuit of a personal quest.
The result is an inspired, long-lasting life change.
2 MONTHS BEFORE
Your retreat journey begins before your arrival in the Baja. You will receive beautifully designed workbooks to guide your reflection. These include readings, videos, journaling, and exercises to ready you to realize your quest. You will also participate in 2 small-group coaching calls with me and some fellow participants to prepare for your journey.
RETREAT DAYS
Your retreat days will intermingle reflection and discovery activities, small group discussions, travel excursions, exploration, play, and relaxation. Each agenda is tweaked to reflect the group and the conversation that emerges.
RETURNING HOME
You will also be supported as you return home and implement your newfound learnings. You will participate in 1 small-group coaching call with me and fellow participants to integrate your epiphanies. You will also have a private online group space where you can continue your dialogue with your new community.
your INVESTMENT IN YOU
***Important Notice: I WILL CONFIRM BY SEPTEMBER 30TH IF WE HAVE ENOUGH PEOPLE REGISTERED.
At that time, you can book flights and prepare to come. If we do not have enough people, I WILL ISSUE A FULL REFUND OR TRANSFER YOUR DEPOSIT TO THE NOVEMBER DATES, whichever you prefer ***
Balance is due two months prior to the retreat. This is an intimate retreat with limited enrollment that includes all meals, accommodations and coaching. That means that we cannot accommodate deposit refunds. However, if something comes up and you cannot attend, we will do our best to help you find someone to fill your spot.
WHO WILL ATTEND:
Women who are the creative visionaries of their own life, who feel the calling to transform and reclaim their guiding power and purpose.
This is a wonderful opportunity to come solo, we are sure you will make new life long friends. You can also experience with a friend, sibling, or someone else who is important to your journey.
WHY I CHOSE BAJA, MEXICO
Why did I choose BAJA?
I know this property well; in a time when everything was changing, I escaped this magical beachfront and gave myself time to be still and let the waves and the sun warm my hibernating spirit.. It is the place where I Re-Imagined who I wanted to be, where I revisioned my way forward and fell in love with my ever-changing body and soul. It is a landscape that is blessed in sunshine and a natural rhythm known for its tranquility and unspoiled natural wonders. Here, in what feels like a deserted beach, you will find yourself in a timeless moment. There are no stoplights, fast food restaurants or gyms but plenty of waves, beaches and scenic hikes. Pure living and a chance to disconnect and give yourself a well-deserved pause from your daily routine. I fell in love with the energy here - so much so that I bought a house down the road! I know you are going to love it.
Getting Here:
There are daily flights regular flights to San Jose del Cabo International Airport (SJD).
We will have transportation arranged at set times, to and from the airport for an additional fee. Anything outside of these arranged times will need to be coordinated by you, though if we can help you, we certainly will. The hotel is a 50 minute drive from the airport. A car is NOT necessary for your time on property.
What others are saying
If you would like to read what others have said about their experience, read an independent review done by Queen Of Retreats UK.
https://queenofretreats.com/personal-review/advivum-journeys-in-hawaii/
RETREAT FAQS
RETREAT FAQS:
HOW WILL YOU DECIDE ON WHO WILL BE ACCEPTED INTO THE RETREAT?
Your experience with one another in the group is an important ingredient on the retreat. In order to be invited to attend, I will interview each applicant for "fit and relevance" on a first-come, first-served basis. My years as a coach have given me a great ability to hear people's intentions and personalities. Our Zoom call will help me determine whether this retreat will be a good fit for you and whether you complement the group's personality and intention. Once you have received my personal invitation, a retreat spot will be reserved upon receipt of your deposit.
WILL I LIKE THE GROUP?
All retreat participants are interviewed prior to their invitation to participate. This means that everyone attending has a desire to seek, learn, and grow. This is a time to enjoy participating and learning in a collective. So much of the magic comes through the shared experience with others.
HOW MANY SPACES ARE AVAILABLE?
I can welcome 14 participants on this retreat. As you are the focus of this retreat, I have intentionally kept the group small so that you have the space to create the experiences, relationships, and 'ah-has' that you are seeking. This also allows me to spend time in impromptu coaching conversations and discovery with each of you and give you full access to the creative process, location, and planned activities.
IS IT FOR MEN OR WOMEN?
Each retreat has a different makeup. Those who show up are passionate, wise, intelligent, kindhearted, open-minded, and adventurous people ready to engage in exploration, regardless of gender. This retreat is open to everyone.
WHAT CAN I EXPECT FROM A TYPICAL DAY?
There will be lots of workshop time spent together, sometimes in large or small groups, sometimes one-on-one with Tania or the co-facilitators. You'll find yourself walking (easy to moderate), being in workshops, thinking hard, laughing loudly, and trying something creative. On some days, our reflections and dialogues are highly structured to move you along a graceful exploration of the questions at hand. Other days will be fluid and follow the mood and rhythm of the group. Every day will have some movement, journaling, workshop time exploring a theme, lots of food, quiet time, and relaxation. Country walks figure prominently, so if you have mobility challenges, please let me know so that I can accommodate your needs. Please note: this accommodation has stairs and is not accessible without the ability to climb a flight of stairs.
IS THERE SUPPORT OFFERED TO ME ONCE I COMPLETE THE RETREAT?
Absolutely! Once you leave the retreat, you'll receive support in the form of workbooks and check-ins to support your learning. Additionally, your group will be connected via a private social media group to support your connections and learning. For those who would like more focused one-on-one support, you might be eligible to work with me directly, and we will determine the frequency and duration that would be most beneficial.
I WANT TO ATTEND BUT CANNOT AFFORD IT. WHAT CAN I DO?
First, ask yourself why you think you can't afford it. These retreats are a powerful way to re-imagine yourself and reignite your passion and joie de vivre. That is a tall order and requires an investment in yourself. Some people are stuck in the belief that it is "expensive" to invest in themselves, but if you are not ready for this financial declaration of the new you, perhaps you are just not ready. If you are ready but need a little help, I have the potential for one scholarship place per retreat. As you fill in the application, you can include a request to talk about a scholarship in the interview call.
CAN I COME LATE OR LEAVE EARLY IF THE DATES DON'T EXACTLY WORK FOR ME?
The retreat design is intricate and graceful. Each moment has been given great consideration, and each element, be it workshop time or downtime, is gently placed into the agenda for a reason. If you come late or leave early, you will miss a part of your discovery, connection with the group, and a step in the overall process. I'd hate for you to miss any of this experience. I encourage you to arrive and depart on the designated arrival/departure days at whatever time works best for your travel schedule. I have found that most overseas travellers enjoy bookending the retreat with a weekend in Paris or Aix-en-Provence.
IF I GET SICK OR SOMETHING COMES UP AND I CAN'T ATTEND, CAN I GET A REFUND?
This is an intimate retreat, and your involvement is planned intentionally. Due to the exclusive nature of this experience, I need a confirmed list of attendees. That means that I cannot accommodate refunds, and I highly recommend that you purchase travel insurance to cover any unanticipated changes in your schedule. If something comes up and you cannot attend, I will offer your spot to those on the waiting list. If someone can take your spot, I am happy to accommodate you by transferring your payment in full to the next workshop.
WHAT IF I HAVE FOOD SENSITIVITIES?
We understand! My team and I are foodies, and food plays a central role in our retreats. We can accommodate vegetarians, vegans, and gluten and dairy intolerances. Please note that as we are not using commercial kitchens, we cannot guarantee that there will be no cross-contamination. If you have other food needs, please inquire and we will let you know how we can accommodate you. Everyone will be satisfied by the fresh, largely local cuisine. Your food preferences and needs will be noted after your application is accepted.
CAN I BRING MY SIGNIFICANT OTHER OR A CHILD IF THEY ARE NOT ATTENDING THE RETREAT?
This is a time of discovery, a time to put yourself at the centre of your quest. To maintain the intimacy and focus of the session, only registered participants are welcome.
IS IT PERSONAL? SHOULD I EXPECT TO "SHARE" AND TO CRY?
Yes and no. It is all about you - your discoveries, breakthroughs, intentions, and laughter. It will be exciting, challenging, and invigorating. You will probably find yourself more relaxed and creative than you've been in a long time. For some participants, this leads to great extroverted discoveries, for others quiet introverted knowings. Sometimes, the path to these things is blocked, and the removal of the blockage can find a release through tears, exclamations, dance, or laughter. It is hard to predict what the effect will be for each individual. I promise that my intention is to journey with you in whatever way you choose.
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Fully expressed, authentic, present leaders are necessary for today’s most innovative and competitive organisations.
Personal leadership is the foundation of a noteworthy leadership culture. As a leader, I am motivated by a sense of personal purpose, and I need to feel recharged so that I can engage better with those around me. By observing my patterns, beliefs, and choices through experiential learning and coaching, I am able to make lasting transformations that will influence my leadership choices and this organisation’s trajectories.
Who we are is how we lead.
If you have any other questions, I’m happy to answer them. Get in touch.